What follows is a selection of personal accounts
provided by Foresight Members. Whilst details are true, identities
may have been changed to preserve privacy. If you have an account you'd
like to share with us, please don't hesitate to contact us.
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| Letter,
first printed in Foresight Spring 2003 Newsletter: Dear
Foresight … Briefly:
I have had unexplained infertility for approximately 4 years.
I started to read about infertility and the name "Foresight" started
to crop up. I wasn't quite sure what you were but decided to
cut out all refined sugar, cake, aspartame, chocolate and caffeine.
Before we had a chance to blink, we were on an IVF programme
which was TERRIBLE, but we were determined to try anything to
have our longed for baby. Anyway, some 3 years later, 2 failed
IVF cycles, and one tragic miscarriage after conceiving naturally,
I at long last followed the advice given by Foresight and had
hair analysis and embarked on the full supplement programme.
I had already changed our diet, filtered our water and tried
our best to buy organic. Anyway, we now have two wonderful baby
boys, conceived naturally! We couldn't be happier.
I do think
it was down to Foresight and all their advice. Your programme
makes perfect sense. It is simple common sense! Now, when I see
people giving their children bright green drinks, coca cola,
red and blue sweets, etc, etc, it seems crazy!! (I'm an infant
teacher).
I have told
everyone I can think of about Foresight and what you have done.
I even showed my midwife my cupboard full of Foresight supplements
(I think she thought I was mad!). But anyone who has suffered
the prospect of childlessness would understand.
Our babies
are beautiful and very healthy. They are not identical although
everyone I meet keeps telling me they are!
I am determined
to carry on with our healthy diet, we drink Red Bush tea, filter
our water and buy organic. I take three Foresight multi-minerals
and two multi-vitamins every morning. I wasn't sure if I should
be taking anything else?
Anyway, a
huge THANKYOU to you all. You have made our dream come true.
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| Letter,
first printed in Foresight Spring 2002 Newsletter:
My
story probably begins over fifteen years ago when I was working
in the pharmacology labs at Liverpool University. A lot of
work was done on contraception; ovulation testing etc As
a result of this I became concerned about my irregular periods
and saw my doctor. She performed blood tests and informed
me that there was nothing really wrong, but when I wanted
to get pregnant they would give me something to stimulate
my body to ovulate normally (Clomid).
So, when
we wanted children I duly went to the doctor; got referred
to the local hospital and was given Clomid after another
set of blood tests. I took it for one month and got pregnant
(this is after not using any form of contraception for a
few years and not getting pregnant). My son (now 14) was
born four weeks early weighing 6lbs and perfectly healthy.
Eighteen
months or so later we decided we wanted another baby. It
had been so easy last time I was sure I could manage without
the Clomid, but after a number months I went back to the
hospital for more tests and more Clomid. This time it took
longer, but after a few months I was pregnant again. This
time things did not go so well. At 12 weeks and 3 days I
suddenly felt unwell with discomfort down on the left side
of my abdomen. The next day I started bleeding and was admitted
to hospital. For a while the bleeding stopped and I even
saw my baby on a scan. But later that day it began again
with cramps, so I knew it was all over. 1 saw my baby; he
was about five inches long and perfectly formed.
It was
soon after this that I first heard about Foresight. I joined
up and my husband and I were fully checked out. I was low
in zinc and was given supplements. I was also checked out
for food intolerances (as they can stress your immune system
and therefore affect zinc levels) and it was discovered that
yeast was my problem. Unfortunately, at this point my marriage
started breaking down, so it was to be a few years before
there was any further interest in babies.
A few
years later, with my new partner, I contacted Foresight again.
We did not have a practitioner in our area, so Mrs Barnes
looked at the hair analysis and recommend supplements for
us. My zinc levels were also low again despite regular supplementation
and we both had a number of problems with heavy metals this
time. In particular lead levels were high (we had bought
a Victorian house that still had it's original lead piped
water mains and we have soft water). It took a long time
to bring the lead levels down to normal, through supplementation
and the use of a water filter. But, since then the water
filter on its own has kept lead levels low. We spent about
a year getting the lead levels normal, and being impatient,
when we could start trying for a baby I also went to the
hospital for another round of tests, and finally Clomid again.
This time it took even longer, but in the summer of 1995
I was finally pregnant again.
I did
not enjoy the heatwave we had that summer the heat made me
feel ill for the first three months of that pregnancy. By
September I felt better and really enjoyed the rest of the
pregnancy. I ate like a horse and put on 3 stone. At 36 weeks
I had a scan and they told me the baby already weighed around
8lb! (what would it weigh in another four weeks?). At the
end of that week, on the Saturday, I had mild contractions
all day. so I got my husband to take me for a walk round
the park to try to start things off properly. It seemed to
work as later that evening the proper contractions started.
J. was born exactly three hours after arriving at hospital,
a relatively easy birth (apart from the fight with midwife
when I wanted to push in an upright position). J. was three
weeks early and weighed 71b 5oz. He was the perfect baby,
very easy to look after; he slept and ate well and had a
happy disposition. He is also a very beautiful child (probably
down to good bone structure due to the good diet and supplements
I took both preconceptually and during pregnancy). I was
asked many times why I didn't get him signed up as a child
model. However, his beauty is now marred by the chicken pox
scar on the end of his nose (he picked at the spot when I
was in hospital having his sister).
Two children
were going to be enough; but after a baby like J. I started
thinking about having another. I became pregnant accidentally
when J. was one, but unfortunately miscarried at just over
six weeks. This made me realise that I really did want another
baby; so a few months later we contacted Foresight again
and had more hair analysis. Again I had low zinc levels,
and we had an unexplained problem with high Cadmium. Supplementation
eventually sorted these problems out. I also went to see
a nutritional therapist (who has since become a Foresight
nutritional advisor) as I was having problems with recurring
thrush. After an exclusion diet I finally found I was suffering
intolerance to dairy products. Excluding dairy products from
my diet (not easy, it is amazing how many pre-packed foods
contain them - even cold meats!) eventually sorted out all
my problems including the continuous low zinc levels.
I finally
became pregnant again in November 1999 (it took three years
this time, and I finally got pregnant one month before my
deadline to give up trying). I seemed to have flu for most
of the first few months of pregnancy so I got a lot of bedrest.
I was concerned for the baby but it doesn't seem to have
done her any harm. This was a very enjoyable pregnancy. I
knew it would be the last, so I made the most of it. I discovered
I was having a girl this time, so I was over the moon. Four
weeks before she was due I swapped all: my boy baby clothes
for girl ones with a friend who was expecting a boy after
a girl. Immediately the friend left the house I went into
labour. The contractions were quite intense from the start,
totally unlike previous labours. After a relatively short
but painful labour, A. was born with just one push weighing
6 lb 3oz.
At three
days old, the paediatrician discovered that A. had a heart
murmur. We went for a couple of check ups to the hospital;
and at 8 months we were told her heart murmur had gone. Now
she is fourteen months, she is a lovely chatty affectionate
little girl, so she more than makes up for being rather demanding.
And I can buy all those pretty girls clothes that I never
could before.
During
my pregnancies with both J. and A. I refused any tests for
possible problems with the babies. My reasoning was that
I could not risk any invasive tests in case I miscarried
and I therefore did not want to be told if I had a high risk
of having a downs / spina bifida baby or I would spend the
rest of the pregnancy worrying. I also felt that I had looked
after my diet and taken supplements for such a long time
preconceptually, that I should not have a high risk of having
any problems. Luckily, both children were fine.
It is
of interest to note that both my Foresight children seem
to be musical (I am not musical at all, but my husband's
family are). J. started asking for a piano from the age of
two, he can pick up a tune after only hearing it once (he
will make up his own words to go with it) and he can sing
in tune (I can't). He also loves all music, but particularly
classical music. A. is only 14 months, but she loves to "play" the
piano at her Grandma's and she has just discovered singing
herself. She also loves listening to music.
Because
of the problems I have had conceiving, I appreciate just
how lucky I am to have three children. The pain caused by
being unable to conceive is enormous, only forgotten once
you have become pregnant. Fully embracing the healthy living
regime recommended by Foresight (and husbands must do it
too!) is the one thing you can do for yourselves that will
help. I spent years trying to get pregnant with my second
and third children; I drank no alcohol for around six years
and I religiously counted my portions of fruit and veg (organic
when possible) every day. In other words, I did everything
I could. But my husband would not give up alcohol (not that
he drank very much). Each time I finally persuaded him to
give up for a little while and I was pregnant three months
later!
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| Letter,
first printed in Foresight Spring 2002 Newsletter:
Dear
Foresight …. I enclose hair samples for analysis. I recently
sent you a birth announcement and photo of our wonderful
baby son, who seems to be growing very quickly! I thought
that a bit of information might help with my future programme.
Firstly,
thank you so much for helping us to get pregnant. We thought
it would never happen, but it only took two months of trying
once my 'levels' were correct. I had a wonderful pregnancy
with the main problem being worrying! However, the birth
was a bit of a nightmare. I was induced 11 days late, and
ended up being given lots of drugs that I had not wanted.
Baby's head hadn't engaged before labour, and I ended up
having forceps (which, despite pulling me 2 foot down the
theatre table using baby's head failed to move baby inside
me!) followed by an emergency Caesarean. R. arrived 13 days
late, screaming, but fit and well and a good 81b l0oz. This
was followed by a stay in hospital during which time I was
given antibiotics (for risk of infection) and painkillers,
both of which I reacted badly to. As a result of the antibiotics,
both myself and R. developed thrush. I only recently managed
to clear this from my nipples by eating lots of Bio yoghurt,
as well as using the prescribed Canesten cream.
R. spent
the first few days crying almost constantly, he lost more
than the 10% expected weight loss, but despite being pushed
towards formula feeds. we resisted and he started to settle
after my milk came in when he was 6 days old. I have struggled
at times to feed him with the pain caused by the Thrush,
but feel proud to say that I kept going and at 8 weeks old
he was a good l2lb, and long rather than 'podgy'! He has
always been very alert and active and (touch wood) has always
slept well (now at 10 weeks sleeping 8-8 1/2 hours at night).
I feel
quite good in myself, though my moods are very up and down.
I have not lost any weight despite breast feeding, but I
am not prepared to 'diet' whilst breastfeeding so am trying
to just eat healthily. I think the problem is I feel hungry
almost constantly. I appear to have had a couple of very
light one day periods. I am also losing a lot of hair from
my head.
Finally,
another good thing to have come from pregnancy is that when
I had a scan to check for retained products, I was told that
my ovaries were fine and had no cysts!! Hopefully they will
stay that way and my PCOS symptoms reduce - fingers crossed!
Thanks
again ... [name omitted]
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| Letter,
first printed in Foresight Spring 2002 Newsletter, from R.
(now 47) and D. (now 35).
Our story
is long, but hopefully it may give readers who have experienced
the pain of infertility and miscarriage hope.
We had
been a couple for 10 years when, in 1994 our infertility
was confirmed as being due to my endometriosis. While waiting
for a laproscopy we were encouraged to try Clomid and timed
intercourse. Of course it did not work. Once my endometriosis
was confirmed and after suffering Danazol and Zoladex, putting
me through the menopause for 6 months, we tried double dose
Clomid with Profasi and timed intercourse from December 1994
to March 1995. We then hit a major stumbling block. A 'mass'
was discovered during a scan, and it appeared to be a fibroid
attached to my bladder (seemingly medically impossible).
After much debate, I had a cystoscopy and further laproscopy.
It was confirmed to be a fibroid. It needed removing if I
was to achieve a pregnancy, but as it was giving me no problems,
I refused to let them operate. (It didn't help when they
wouldn't operate at Stirling and wanted to refer me to a
cancer specialist in Glasgow, ARGH!!)
I insisted
that I be put forward for the next stage of my fertility
treatment and was referred to Falkirk. The gynae there made
me feel as if I had a contagious disease and would not entertain
giving me fertility treatment (I presume IUI) and I was referred
to Dundee for IVF. My first appointment was in August 1995,
and the consultant there persuaded me to let him remove the
fibroid and any endometriomata found while I was waiting
for my first NHS IVF cycle. We were to monitor ovulation
in-between times, and hope we got lucky. We didn't. So, in
1995 I had a laporotomy to remove my fibroid. It was a difficult
operation, but I recovered in four months, and in May 1996,
we embarked on our first NHS IVF cycle.
Unfortunately,
I did not respond to the drugs to stimulate ovulation, and
the treatment was abandoned. I was told that, quote, "it
was difficult for the consultant to be too reassuring about
the likelihood of success!". So, at this very early stage
they want me to give up! Not on your life!
In August
1996 we started our first cycle with increased dosage of
drugs, but only achieved 5 eggs, none were mature, and none
fertilised. We were devastated. We were encouraged to give
up on IVF as the consultant could not be confident that we
would have a better chance of success in the future!
I was
extremely unhappy with his attempt to "fob me off', so I
demanded a face to face meeting after writing him a very
strong letter. (I discovered that a neighbour was getting
NHS treatment quicker than me and I had other grievances).
After our "clear the air" meeting I was told my first NHS
cycle would now be August 1997, but if I paid I would start
up in January 1997.
I discussed
my treatment with my GP (who has been absolutely fantastic),
and he encouraged me to get a second opinion as to further
IVF treatment. So, in November 1996 we attended a private
hospital in Glasgow. Their attitude was completely different
with no false promises but lots of clear advice.
Eventually,
in September 1997, we embarked on our first NHS ICSI. Sadly,
just as I was about to do a pregnancy test, I started to
bleed, but I was actually pregnant! However, I continued
to bleed and a scan revealed that I had had a miscarriage.
In September
1988, after another failed IVF attempt, I had my second miscarriage.
We were devastated. Why us? I was told that the only thing
left to try was HCG injections after the ICSI instead of
progesterone pessaries. I made contact with the Miscarriage
Association at this point, which gave me hope.
Again,
in March 1999, after ICSI with "assisted hatching", I achieved
pregnancy, but yet again I was to miscarry. We were at our
lowest ebb. I was off work, stressed out, and I finally went
to a Miscarriage Association meeting in Stirling and met
Mary Wallace - my saviour! She introduced me to Foresight
and, thank God she did.
We had
our hair analysed, and found we had low zinc and high lead
readings. We started on our vitamins in July 1999, filtered
our water and tried eating organic produce. We had our second
hair analysis in November 1999, and our results had improved,
but were still not good enough to try and get pregnant. Of
course we were impatient, so we tried ICSI, assisted hatching
and HCG injections plus 75mg aspirin. Two embryos were implanted
and although I did not bleed, a scan revealed a sac but no
heartbeat. One step closer again. I had a D&C in January
2000. In March of that year I visited a Foresight Nutritionist
and also went organic as much as possible in the lead up
to our final ICSI. The £40 was money well spent! Midi [Foresight
Nutritionist] advised me of "dos and don'ts", and lent me
the Foresight video. I even persuaded R. to try more organic
produce, no deodorants, air fresheners, no coffee and R.
also drastically reduced his alcohol and cigarette intake.
We started
our ICSI as our hair analysis in April showed that I was
ready. We had a scan in May and our prayers were answered!
A heartbeat we had done it!! The whole world heard our good
news! I stayed off work, stress free and continued with HCG
injections, aspirin and Foresight vitamins. But, 8 weeks
into the pregnancy, I started to bleed. My lovely neighbour
took me to hospital, where to my relief, a scan showed that
all was fine. I was advised to stay in hospital for some
TLC, so my neighbour went home to get me my Foresight vitamins!
The nurses faces were a picture!
After
a couple of days I was sent home for bedrest. R. nursed me
for weeks. I had weekly scans up to 18 weeks, when the bleeding
stopped. My GP, midwife, consultant at Stirling Hospital
were all wonderful. C. was due on January 13th 2001, and
I was induced on January 15th. I wanted a natural birth!
I had hired a birthing pool and it was ready in the hospital
for me. I had bought a homeopathic kit and hired a tens machine.
I laboured well but by 3am I used my tens machine and painkillers.
My waters were broken at 8am, and I was in the birthing pool
from 10am to midday with gas and air. I needed drugs! By
4.30pm I was ready to push. Our daughter, C. got stuck by
her shoulders, and she had meconium, so when she finally
arrived after an episiotomy she was whipped away for resuscitation.
The five minute wait was the longest five minutes of our
lives. C. was brought back to us and weighed. The midwife
had to weigh her twice - she was 10lb 15oz! Unfortunately
she had Gestational Diabetes but after a fraught few days
I finally got home and we had to learn to breastfeed after
the hospital made her have bottles! She lost weight and at
91b 2oz I nearly gave up, but she turned the corner and started
taking to the breast.
C. thrived,
and is still breastfeeding at 1 year of age. She is a joy.
C. loves music, books, the camera and :camcorder and the
weather forecast. She is the love of our lives, and well
worth the wait.
[f only
we had heard of Foresight sooner. I'm convinced we wouldn't
have had the miscarriages. I think the IVF would have been
needed due to the endometriosis and poor ovulation, but the
Foresight programme definitely tipped the balance.
We are
now going back on the Foresight programme and are going to
try the natural approach for a few months before considering
another ICSI. Much more pleasurab1e.
Yours
sincerely, and with thanks to Foresight ... [names omitted]
Follow-up
letter from D. printed in Foresight Summer 2002 Newsletter:
Dear
Foresight …. Thank you for including C.s story in your last
newsletter (Spring 2002).
As our
story spans 9 years, you had to précis it and I just wanted
to point out that we had 10 IVF attempts in total. I would
strongly advise any reader contemplating IVF that they should
follow the Foresight programme before starting any treatment.
I believe both partners' bodies should be prepared for pregnancy
and the Foresight programme prepares you for the IVF regime
and helps to optimise your chances of success.
I believe
that Foresight and acupuncture "tipped the balance" for me
as my eggs had previously been of poor quality and low in
number, but when I conceived Cara, Foresight predicted that
I was fit for pregnancy, and they were right!
I also
believe that having a supportive GP, consultant and midwife
is also important especially if you have a history of miscarriage.
If I had heard of Foresight earlier, I am convince I would
not have had to endure 4 miscarriages. It is important that
the "men" take the vitamins and eat organically as well as
cutting out the cigarettes and alcohol (or drastically reducing
them) even if the woman has been diagnosed as infertile.
It needs to be a joint effort. Believe me, it is well worth
it!
Everyone
comments on C.'s lovely smile and nature, and I believe Foresight
are partly responsible for that too! I am contemplating having
another Foresight baby (hopefully without IVF this time)
but if IVF is necessary I know that the Foresight programme
will have us well prepared! I hope our story inspires any
fellow sufferers of endometriosis/infertility/miscarriage
to give Foresight a try.
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Letter,
first printed in the Foresight Spring 1999 newsletter:
My story
starts in August 1994 when my husband and I decided to try
for a baby. After many years on the pill I expected it may
take time. When 12 months later nothing had occurred, I sought
help. After an unsuccessful course of Clomid, a laproscopy
in November 1996 revealed ovarian cysts. Shortly after this
I became aware of Foresight and with the assistance of Charlotte
Bridge, had hair analysis completed for my husband and I. This
revealed a number of mineral inadequacies. We commenced supplements
and at the same time I had follicular tracing scans to check
the progress of my cycle. It was clear I was failing to ovulate
and was again prescribed Clomid. I became pregnant at the first
attempt. My pregnancy went very well and I gave birth to a
6 lb girl on 21st March 1998. Thank you Foresight.
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Letter,
first printed in the Foresight Spring 1999 newsletter:
My husband
and I joined Foresight about one year ago after 3 failed IVF
attempts. I'm pleased to let you know that having followed
the Foresight 'regime' every since, I'm now 12 weeks pregnant
with twins! I'll let you know the fully story/outcome after
November. I'd be grateful if you could send me some more of
your pamphlets so that I can pass on the Foresight message
to the doctors at the hospital (I've already passed my copies
on to friends who have miscarried and urged them to join) .......
Many, many thanks.
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| Letter,
first printed in the Foresight Spring 1999 newsletter:
Having
been trying for a baby for over a year I decided to give
Foresight a go so my husband and I had our hair samples sent
off to the lab. Having been trying for so many months I decided
to [stop] using contraception again once I'd started on the
programme properly and was taking all my mineral and vitamin
supplements. The results of the hair analysis showed me only
slightly deficient in zinc.
In the
meanwhile I became pregnant (in a spiritually significant
way after a prayer session with friends!) I took the minerals
and vitamins advised for me throughout the pregnancy and
Gabriel was born by planned caesarean on 11th December. The
baby's head would not engage and at week 37 it was discovered
that I had a large fibroid partially blocking the baby's
way out. It's been a tiring 6 months but it's been fun to
have Gabriel around.
My advice
to others would be to start using contraception again whilst
waiting for the results of the hair analysis (see note);
had my results showed a significant deficit in anything this
would have been a worry during the pregnancy.
NOTE:-
Foresight will always advise waiting at least until the
results of hair analyses are received. Our recommended
contraception is a barrier method and / or Natural Family
Planning, but definitely NOT the contraceptive pill or
IUD.
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from a letter (first printed in the Foresight Autumn 1997
newsletter) from a Foresight member who had four IUI and
two IVF unsuccessful attempts, prior to finding Foresight:
This time last year we finally
knew we would never have our own children .... And we would
never know why. After six years of trying to conceive, our
second attempt at IVF had failed spectacularly. Day after
day I had bared my bottom to be injected with ever-increasing
doses of the drug designed to force several eggs from each
ovary. In my case, one ovary went on strike and I failed
to produce enough eggs to make the next stage worthwhile.
The doctor's verdict? I had run out of eggs. As he sat at
his desk drawing little diagrams of follicles and tubes and
ovaries I found myself, once again, making huge efforts to
stop weeping openly.
I felt one part of my life had
ended and it was time to move on. I was devastated. I was
grieving. But I had to do something to try and repair the
damage done by years of tests and trying and failing. I felt
contaminated by all those drugs. My reproductive system had
been suppressed, stimulated, controlled by drugs sprayed
up my nose and stuck in my bottom. I wanted to do my body
a favour, to make amends, make myself whole again.
We turned
to Foresight - not to prepare for pregnancy, but to "clean up" and "service" our
bodies after the upheaval. It was part of our drive to turn
our lives around, accept our situation and enjoy it. We took
the tests and followed the regime suggested - not to the
letter I might add. If we had been preparing for pregnancy
our motivation would have been stronger. We may have had
the odd drink but we religiously took our vitamin pills.
And two months later I was pregnant.
Now we have an eight week old son who weighed 10lb 11oz at
birth after a trouble-free pregnancy. An unexpected and overwhelming
event.
Why was he suddenly conceived?
There is no hard evidence which points to the Foresight regime,
just a strong coincidence. Perhaps it was another case of
a woman relaxing, forgetting and conceiving. But the truth
was I hadn't quite relaxed, I hadn't quite given up. How
could I break the habit of six years and ignore my body's
cycle? I hadn't relaxed or forgotten at all.
Was it Foresight? Who knows?
One thing I'm sure of is that I have a beautiful healthy
baby who enjoys all the benefits of a high birthweight. I
have Foresight to thank for his, and my, well-being.
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Article about one couple's
success, first printed in the Foresight Autumn 1997 newsletter:
In the spring of 1992 the couple
started trying to conceive. In February 1994, the husband had
an operation on his inguinal hernia and varicocele, following
a test showing a sperm count of only 7 million, and poor motility.
In June 1994 the couple were referred to an NHS specialist
who discovered that the wife was not ovulating an prescribed
Clomid. In the autumn of 1994 they found Foresight and had
a hair analysis and went onto a programme of vitamin and mineral
supplementation.
At this
time ovulation was "still
problematic". Post coital tests revealed "poor positive" chance
of natural conception. Further tests showed no blockages in
the fallopian tubes. A detailed sperm analysis was done, and
the sperm were deemed unsuitable for IVF treatment, due to
the poor quality and ICSI was discussed.
In January 1995 it was revealed
that ovulation had now started. Eight cycles were achieved
by January 1996, however a sperm test still revealed a count
of only 7 million, still with poor motility. In March 1996
the couple began to eat organically cultivated vegetables,
fruit, dairy and meat.
In April 1996 they were referred
to the Nurture Clinic in Nottingham. The sperm count was found
to be 11 million and there was good motility. In August 1996
the sperm count was found to be 34 million and with good motility.
This level should have been viable for normal conception, however
the coupled decided to proceed with IVF and 7 eggs were recovered.
Four of these were mature and were fertilised. Three embryos
were replaced and a single pregnancy was confirmed at the end
of August 1996. In May 1997 a perfect little girl, weighing
7lb 14oz, was born.
[NOTE:- This is a case which
says a lot for the powers of organic food. It is possible
that conception might have been achieved naturally,
however, after such a long wait, one can understand the couple's
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