What follows is a selection of personal accounts
provided by Foresight Members. Whilst details are true, identities
may have been changed to preserve privacy. If you have an account you'd
like to share with us, please don't hesitate to contact us.
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Letter,
first printed in Foresight Summer 2002:
Newsletter
Dear Foresight ….. What a difference a year makes! We lost
our son in January last year (born silently at 20 weeks), and
felt we would never recover. Having two children of 3½ and
1½ years, we had to, so we looked at ways of ensuring it never
happened again. We discovered Foresight, and had hair analysis
and several courses of vitamins, followed by a second sample.
Our levels were almost up to strength, so we decided to try
again.
My wife
became pregnant within a month, and had almost no sickness,
unlike the previous three pregnancies - the vitamins perhaps?
After a very stressful pregnancy, with lots of hospital visits,
our daughter, S. was born 4 weeks early, but healthy and chubby
(7lb 10oz), a miracle!
We just
thought you might like to know of a success story - all the
best, and thanks!
Yours faithfully … [name
omitted]
February, 2002
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Letter, first printed in the Foresight
Autumn 1999 newsletter:
Dear Foresight ...
you asked me to put some background information down for you to include … I
wasn't sure how much detail you wanted, so please use as much as you
feel appropriate.
We wanted
to follow the Foresight Programme and despite no Foresight
'GP' in our area, we put into practice as much as we could
- hair analysis and vitamin programme, no alcohol, no smoking
(already!) and we already had a wonderful homeopath. We'd had
two miscarriages in 1994 and were delighted to find at the
end of 1995 that I was pregnant again, with the baby due in
June 1996.
My pregnancy
generally went well although I was very sick at first, losing
half a stone, and I had very low haemoglobin levels at 34 weeks
(6.3), needing a transfusion of 2 pints of blood. I refused
the routine ultrasound scan at 18 weeks and the consultant,
to his credit, accepted my position that I would have a scan
if medically indicated, but would prefer not to risk any chance
of neurological damage to my baby at such an early developmental
stage.
In the later
stages, the baby was thought to be breech although some midwives
thought it was head down. So, at 37 weeks, we met the consultant
to discuss delivery options and agreed at this stage to have
a scan to determine how the baby was lying. We went in and
the consultant said 'Well, is this baby breech or not?", and
the ultrasound operator uttered the immortal words, 'well,
one is, but the other isn't!' We had thought we were prepared
for the birth, but now had to have a very rapid re-think!
Our baby
daughters, J. and R. were born at 39 weeks, eventually by caesarean
section. My waters broke, then labour didn't really progress
and even after 9 hours of an oxytocin drip I had still only
got to 4cm dilated and R.'s heart rate was starting to fall.
J. weighed 4lb 14oz, and R. 61b, both scored 9/10 at one minute
Apgar, and 10/10 at five minutes. J.'s paediatrician was very
upset that he couldn't find any reason to send her to the Special
Care Baby Unit!
I fully
breast fed both babies until they were 14 months old. They
shared J.'s cot until they were 6 months old and then had one
each. R. was always a very cuddly baby and couldn't settle
alone once she woke in the night, so her cot was hardly used!
The girls
are now nearly 3 years old now and are very healthy - even
when J. contracted pneumococcal meningitis at 8 months old,
giving us a dreadful few days of worry, she made a very rapid
recovery. We put their good health down to the combination
of Foresight programme and our homeopath during my pregnancy
and the similar approach we take now with an almost 100% organic
wholefood diet and care to minimise other harmful chemicals
in their lives (bedding, clothing, toys etc), together with
ongoing homeopathic care. I hope this is of use to you. With
best wishes ... [names ommitted]
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Letter,
first printed in Foresight Summer 2002 Newsletter:
When my
husband and I got married at the age of 30 we were both keen
to start a family almost straight away. I had a feeling that
it would not be straight forward for me to conceive because
I had always had extremely irregular periods of anything between
27 and 80 days and when I had been to see a doctor about this
in my teens he suggested that it might be necessary for me
to have hormone treatment if I had difficulty having children
in the future.
I was therefore
delighted and quite surprised to fall pregnant within 3 months
of being married. However this and a further 3 pregnancies
ended in miscarriage after 8 to 11 weeks. After the first 2
miscarriages I was referred to the recurrent miscarriage unit
of our local hospital and my husband and I had all the blood
tests to try to discover what the problem was. The only thing
they discovered at that point was that I had a blood condition
which meant that my blood clotted too readily and they suggested
that this could be a cause of my miscarriages. I was therefore
advised to take low dose aspirin to ensure that my blood did
not clot too much, endangering the tiny blood vessels that
enable the placenta to work during any future pregnancy. During
the course of these investigations I fell pregnant again, but
this time I miscarried extremely early on. In fact, the pregnancy
was only detected by one of the extra sensitive tests that
they have at hospital and was clearly over almost as soon as
it had begun.
All this
was pretty traumatic and left us feeling battered. We had suffered
these miscarriages within just over a year of being married.
My husband and I then did not conceive for a long while. At
our request we were referred to the Infertility Clinic at our
local hospital and saw a lovely doctor to discuss what we should
do next to help us on our way to having a baby. Before he would
lay out the possibilities he asked if I might possibly be pregnant
and suggested I have a pregnancy test. It was discovered that
I was pregnant again which delighted us no end. This was just
before Christmas but we were cautious not to announce our news
to anyone after our previous disappointments. It was fortunate
that we made this decision, because in January I miscarried
again. It was difficult to understand what was going on. I
had been careful to take folic acid and the aspirin and yet
still I was unable to maintain a pregnancy. The same doctor
we had seen just before Christmas suggested we try acupuncture
as we had asked to have as little intervention as possible
in our effort to conceive. The hospital at the time was hosting
a Chinese doctor to investigate the use of acupuncture to help
women with pelvic pain and ovulation induction. I tried 2 cycles
of this without success and it was suggested that this was
perhaps not the way forwards for us. Instead we embarked upon
ovulation induction using hormone treatment. This involved
me having to inject myself with hormones to control ovulation
so that my husband and I would know the best time to aim for
conception. We went through 3 or 4 unsuccessful cycles and
it was discovered that I had polycystic ovaries which was probably
another reason why it was so difficult for us to conceive.
The treatment we received during this time was superb and each
time the nurses looking after me were as disappointed at our
failure as ourselves.
It was in
the autumn of 2000 at my grandmother's funeral that I was told
about Foresight. Funnily enough, that very week I had heard
Foresight mentioned on the 'Food Programme' on BBC Radio 4.
However, a second cousin whom I had never met before had heard
that we were having difficulty having children and took us
aside to tell us in more detail about Foresight. To be honest,
we did not instantly think this it was the answer to our problems,
but we thought that it was worth a try. I told the hospital
that I wanted to have a 6 month break before trying another
cycle of ovulation induction while I sorted out my diet and
had all the tests done. My husband and I went and had ourselves
checked out for urinary tract and sexually transmitted diseases
which were all clear, we had our hair analysed and began taking
the vitamin and mineral supplements. We were not too careful
about avoiding pregnancy during this time, partly because we
thought it would be highly unlikely for us to conceive and
partly because we didn't want to lose any more time. I realize
this is not strictly following the Foresight guidelines, but
it was the way we wanted to do it. At this point I must add
that I had also just changed jobs and we had decided to move
house. We deliberately chose a house which needed a lot of
work doing on it so that I could get stuck into DIY and take
my mind off wanting to have a baby. Most importantly in our
view, we also had a very supportive group of Christian friends
and members of our family who were praying on our behalf that
we might have a baby. We learned later that one group of friends
started a secret pact to fast as well as pray for us.
We had just
had our hair analysed for a second time when we discovered
that I was pregnant (2 weeks before we were due to move!).
This was 4 months after having started the Foresight programme
and happened completely naturally. I had no sickness during
my pregnancy, and only felt a little nauseous during the day,
usually brought on by my boss's aftershave! (I never did have
the nerve to ask him to avoid 'splashing it all over'). I was
very careful not to overexert myself in the first few weeks,
but after 12 weeks or so walked the 2½ miles to work every
day (catching the bus home). I carried on with the Foresight
programme throughout my pregnancy. The only thing I was unable
to give up completely was chocolate. I kept very well and the
only discomfort I had was from piles (which I had prior to
my pregnancy anyway) and heartburn at night in the last trimester.
The birth itself was long and I ended up having an epidural
and a ventouse delivery, but the end result was a beautiful
baby boy with a full head of blond hair.
We are not
certain that Foresight made all the difference, but we are
convinced that following the programme helped us to do something
creative, rather than having things poked and prodded at hospital,
enabling us to do something for ourselves. I am sure that the
change in diet and the vitamins and minerals improved our health
and I am equally sure that the love and support of our family
and friends was also a vital factor. We give thanks to Almighty
God who oversaw the whole process, sending us help and guidance
through the kind health professionals at our local hospital,
giving us comfort and emotional strength through our Christian
friends and for leading us into contact with the work of Foresight.
May He continue to bless all the work that Foresight does to
help couples like my husband and myself.
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Letter,
first printed in the Foresight Spring 1999 newsletter:
I apologise
for not writing sooner with photographs of my son, L. who was
born underwater at Hammersmith Hospital in December 1996, weighing
in a 8lb 6oz. With the help of the midwives in attendance,
a warming atmosphere was created using dim lighting and essential
oil of Neroli. I had decided beforehand that I would not have
any form of pain relief because I knew the pain would not last
forever. The water also helped to relax me.
Although
L. suffered from eczema until recently (which was very mild)
I kept him off cows milk products and wheat until now. I found
the absolute best remedy for his eczema was to rub in evening
primrose oil. The dry patches on his body disappeared completely
within two weeks, unlike the topical cream that my orthodox
doctor prescribed. Now the only time I feel any dryness on
his body is when he is teething.
L. came
into this world after a lot of disappointments and heartache.
I didn't know until I lost the previous pregnancy at five and
a half months (after which the hospital conducted a post-mortem)
that I was suffering from systemic candida (monilia) which
they found in the baby's lungs and in the umbilical cord. On
top of this I had Hashimotos disease (Hypothyroidism). After
being treated with orthodox drugs (which worked while I was
on them) and then later, more successfully with herbal and
homeopathic remedies for the candida, and taking a daily dose
of Thyroxine, it was 18 months later that I fell pregnant with
L. I had the usual hair and sweat tests which showed that my
vitamin and mineral levels were generally good, although zinc
and manganese were slightly low and (as had been the case with
previous tests) my cadmium level was slightly raised as was
my copper, although I wasn't too bothered about the copper
because I knew that pregnancy can increase copper levels. For
the first five months of my pregnancy I still had problems
with spotting around the time of my normal period and I suffered
badly until the fourth month with terrible nausea and sickness
(24 hours). I took the Foresight vitamins and minerals for
most of the pregnancy but unfortunately I couldn't take them
during the period of sickness. The last 3 months were plain
sailing with no problems whatsoever.
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Letter,
first printed in the Foresight Spring 1999 newsletter:
On 3rd January
1998 I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. C. finally came
after four years of heartache and many tears. By writing my
personal story, I hope that I can give courage and strength
to those still trying for a baby. Miracles do happen.
In March
1994 my husband and I began to try for a baby. A year later,
I had still not conceived and, therefore, saw my GP. Routine
fertility blood tests were carried out. By the time my results
came back, the blue line on the pregnancy kit was positive.
We were ecstatic.
10 weeks
later we told family and friends and I saw the midwife a couple
of days later. I had no sickness and felt well. Later that
evening, after the examination, my tummy began to ache and
the following morning I started to 'spot'. Bed rest was advised
but three days later on 10 June 1995, I began to experience
'period pains'. I can remember walking up and down the garden
in floods of tears knowing that later that night I would lose
my baby. I was admitted to hospital, a miscarriage was confirmed
and I was taken to theatre for an ERPC.
I didn't
sleep at all that night and the following morning the surgeon
came to check on me and advised that I would need an injection
of Anti-D as my blood group was Rhesus Negative B. No explanation
could be given for the miscarriage and we were told to wait
a month before trying again.
Five months
later in November 1995, I conceived again. This time the pregnancy
only lasted 6 weeks. I started to 'spot' again and an early
scan at the hospital could not find a baby although a pregnancy
test was still showing as positive. The hospital decided I
should go home and see what happened and over the course of
the following few days, the pregnancy ended naturally. I was
given an injection of Anti-D once again. No explanation could
be given for this second miscarriage and we were advised to
try again.
In April
1996 I was woken up on morning with dreadful tummy pains. My
period was only a day or so late but I felt so sick and faint
and eventually passed several large blood clots. Two months
later in June 1996, the same thing happened again. As I had
never experienced pain at such a level as this nor had I ever
passed blood clots during a normal period, I consulted my GP.
It was concluded that I had probably experienced two further,
early miscarriages. On paper, however, I had not had the 'standard'
three miscarriages to warrant referral to a fertility specialist
and so my GP carried out further routine fertility blood tests,
all of which came back normal.
In the Autumn
of 1996, my husband consulted our GP to undertake a sperm sample
as we were both becoming concerned at our failure to conceive.
His results showed a low sperm count, low motility and a high
percentage of abnormal sperm. On this basis, our GP duly referred
us onto the Fertility Specialist at our local hospital with
an appointment for early January 1997.
This latest
bombshell was totally unexpected and we seriously began to
doubt our future as would-be parents. I, however, was determined
to see if there was anything we could do on a self-help basis
to improve our fertility and had read several articles on the
work of the Foresight Association and their success in recurrent
miscarriages. Realising we had nothing to lose, I arranged
an appointment with a Foresight clinician at the end of January
1997.
At the beginning
of January 1997 we saw the Fertility Specialist at our local
hospital who was unconcerned about my husband's sperm count
as we had proved pregnancy was possible. It was decided, therefore,
that I would undergo various fertility tests including an x-ray
of my tubes to see if a reason for miscarriage could be pinpointed.
At the end of January 1997, we also saw the Foresight Clinician
and decided to embark on the Foresight Programme once all my
hospital tests had been concluded.
The Easter
week of 1997 I was at home on leave and I cried all week. I
had finished all my fertility tests and everything was normal.
We had been advised to 'go away' for six months, forget about
getting pregnant and if nothing had happened by September 1997,
we would be referred onto an IVF Unit. The only positive thing
I had to hold onto was that our results from the Foresight
Association had showed that both of us were quite deficient
in many vitamins, minerals, etc. and that by at least embarking
upon this programme we would be doing something positive for
our health.
Three weeks
later, the blue line on the pregnancy test kit was positive.
I informed the Fertility Specialist at the hospital immediately
and was advised to take on 75mg aspirin a day. There was no
medical reason for me to take the aspirin but the Specialist
considered that there had been shown benefits in taking an
aspirin a day in cases of recurrent miscarriages and in my
case it wouldn't do any harm not to do so. I also advised the
Foresight Association and they advised me to stay on their
programme.
I didn't
tell my husband until a week later when the pregnancy test
was confirmed by my GP. I refused to undergo an early scan
at 9 weeks which my doctor had arranged for me but I finally
found the courage to go at 12 and a half weeks. My husband
was so nervous about the scan in case it showed a blank screen
that a very close friend of mine came with me instead. There
for the first time in four years I finally met my baby.
I was terribly
sick for the first 12 weeks, morning, noon and night but I
wouldn't have changed this for anything. The rest of the pregnancy
went smoothly albeit that we were extremely guarded and didn't
announce it to surprised family and friends until we had reached
20 weeks.
I will never
forget about the babies we lost but C.'s arrival into this
world not only brightened up a very wet and windy January morning
but showed us that there is always hope when times are bad.
Miracles do happen.
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Letter,
first printed in the Foresight Spring 1999 newsletter:
After seven
years in a stable happy relationship and much soul-searching,
my partner and
I decided to have a baby. We thought we were well prepared
in that our child rearing ideas seemed similar and were thrilled
and apprehensive when we discovered I was pregnant in November
1993. I experienced almost constant nausea and felt very tired
and low for about thirteen weeks. On my birthday in late January
I felt the baby was struggling to survive inside me - something
'felt' very wrong indeed but I dismissed this notion, as did
everyone else, as first time nerves. At twenty one weeks, on
the 22nd February 1994, slight bleeding occurred. Terrified,
we called a doctor who sent me straight to hospital. A scan
showed no foetal heartbeat. Our whole world collapsed; only
those who have lost a child can know how bad the pain is. The
next day I returned to hospital to have labour induced and
after eighteen hours our little boy Joshua was born, tiny but
perfectly formed. He had been dead for about four weeks, since,
I now realised that dreadful time I felt something was wrong.
The autopsy revealed no abnormalities and my own blood tests
were clear. My consultant did not seem to understand my desperate
need to know why this terrible thing had happened to our baby,
and how fearful we were that it might happen again.
As the first
dreadful grief stricken weeks dragged by, I discovered the
existence of Foresight (I'm not sure how now!) and received
the literature. I was stunned to find out how complacent we
had been about pre-conceptual care; emotionally we were ready,
physically we were not. As non-smoking, healthy eating vegetarians
we had assumed we would get all the vitamins and minerals we
needed from our diet. We hadn't banked on genito-urinary diseases,
exposure to toxic metals, zinc and magnesium deficiency. I
had been feeling quite smug for finding out about folic acid
five weeks into the pregnancy, not from my GP but a kindly
pharmacist; now I realised that through ignorance (and not
just on our part but that of the NHS, the media and society
in general) how ill informed we had truly been.
Regrettably
all this information came too late; I was pregnant again two
months after the miscarriage', as it was officially termed,
although to me it seemed more like a stillbirth, and in fact
I gained a lot of support from SANDS. However, I tried much
harder to maintain reasonable mineral levels in my diet, attended
yoga classes to alleviate stress and visited a Shiatsu practitioner
to improve energy levels. Luckily for us, the pregnancy went
well and after a long arduous labour of several days Lily was
born the day after my birthday, bringing us great joy.
We decided
to be in optimum health for the next pregnancy and started
Foresight's programme in 1996. Our hair sample analyses were
incredible - I was low in zinc, magnesium, manganese, calcium
and selenium and my partner's levels of lead and aluminum were
alarmingly high. I now know that zinc and magnesium in particular
are implicated in miscarriage and ordered the recommended vitamin
and mineral supplements. Even though it cost nearly £500, we
knew it was a small price to pay for peace of mind (we paid
in instalments which made it easier). And the price was covering
twenty six tablets a day for me, and 19 for my partner. At
first, we actually felt worse, but this only lasted a few days,
and I assume it was just our bodies reacting to the new regime.
We soon felt full of energy with clear skins, strong nails
and hair and brighter eyes. After three months, I fell pregnant
and had trouble swallowing the larger manganese tablets due
to my usual bouts of nausea so I switched to a liquid form
which was more palatable. I sailed through the rest of my pregnancy
and in August 1997, after a short and far less traumatic labour,
gave birth to my baby son, L..
Being part
of the Foresight programme gave us a confidence that all would
be well because we had done everything in our power to optimise
our own health and therefore that of our baby. I now recommend
Foresight to friends, relatives, even acquaintances; sadly
the majority have never heard of the Association or considered
preconceptual care. I've been there. I only wish I had discovered
Foresight before all our heartache.
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Letter,
first printed in the Foresight Spring 1999 newsletter:
As you
will see from our records, following the birth of our son seven
years ago, my wife has had three miscarriages. We sought NHS
help, attended fertility clinics and paid for sperm count tests.
In summary, no one could provide answers as to why the miscarriages
had occurred.
My wife
was put on several courses of fertility drugs and we were told
that this had resolved production of the egg. However, we were
then informed that my sperm count was so low, that I was basically
sterile. Of those few sperm remaining, the majority were 'severely
dysfunctional'! Our NHS treatment concluded with being offered
IVF as the only possible option. We were refused the lesser
option as they considered there was a zero chance of success!
By this
stage we were both very depressed. Then one of my wife's friends
read an article in a magazine regarding Foresight. The results
shown versus peoples background of 'problems' seemed unbelievably
too good to be true. We were both very sceptical, but with
nothing to lose, wrote off to yourself for information.
On reading
your book, everything suddenly seemed to make considerable
sense. You are what you eat! Determined, we sought as much
organic produce as we could. My diet in particular changed
to a greater vegetable intake. We had the hair tests and were
amazed at how far out our results were to ideal. As you will
see, we took the vitamins as suggested religiously. Anyway,
imagine our disbelief when in January, following a late period,
a pregnancy test proved positive.
The first
couple of months were extremely stressful, as each miscarriage
had occurred during the first 3 months. Strangely, emotions
were the opposite to those expected. Instead of huge excitement,
neither of us would allow ourselves to 'buy in' to everything
being OK. I guess its nature's way of trying to avoid being
disappointed again if things do go wrong. My
wife is now 25 weeks pregnant and the scan (at 22 weeks) determined
everything at this stage is as it should be. Our son is so
excited about his brother/sister to be, he has so much wanted
a sibling!
For your
information, my doctor arranged for me to have a further sperm
count test when pregnancy was confirmed, as we had kept him
informed and provided literature regarding your Foresight programme.
Strangely, my sperm count had not increased vastly. Motility
had increased slightly, but count is still very low. I guess
it only takes one healthy sperm in the correct conditions to
be successful and, whilst doctors had told us that due to my
low count, it was virtually impossible to conceive, we had
managed 3 pregnancies prior to Foresight but clearly, due to
an imbalance of vitamins/minerals they were not healthy enough
to do other than create a miscarriage.
Anyway,
we're fully converted to your logical explanations to many
couples' fertility problems. Somehow, the NHS must be educated
to accept common sense! Purely from a financial perspective,
millions of pounds could be saved through less miscarriages
and other complications. More importantly, far less peoples'
lives would be 'screwed up' emotionally if more successful
pregnancies occurred. I know you know this, pity most of the
NHS training does not recognise your research etc.
Footnote:-
Baby J. arrived 2 weeks early weighing 6 lb 3 oz, dark with
blond eyebrows and blue eyes.
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for foresight web site, 1998:
I first became pregnant in December
1994 after three months of trying. When I was nine and a
half weeks pregnant, I miscarried and was given an ERPC (Evacuation
of Retained Products of Conception) at the Royal Berkshire
Hospital. While waiting for this procedure to be done, I
read about Foresight in a magazine left in the ward's day
room. When I was discharged from the hospital I was given
a few leaflets on support organisations, etc. and amongst
them was a leaflet on which Foresight's number was printed.
I decided to contact them.
The approach Foresight recommends
was immediately attractive to me, since it seemed natural
and non-invasive. My husband and I followed the approach
closely for five months, after which time we were told that
we could try for another pregnancy. I fell pregnant in the
first month and gave birth to a baby boy in April 1995. My
son is now nearly three and has a sister (five months), who
was also conceived after following the Foresight approach.
Both of our children are very healthy and (generally!) happy.
I recommend the Foresight approach wholeheartedly to anyone
who wants to start (or complete) a healthy family.
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